What keeps a great reunion going

After a meaningful trip, dinner, or reunion, people usually have good intentions to stay in touch, but those plans often fade. The connection feels strong at the time, but without a set date for the next conversation, time slips by quickly.

After graduation, life moved forward—careers, families, and new commitments took us in different directions. For a while, I lost touch with many college friends. Years later, I found myself on a boat in Croatia, surrounded by classmates, old friends, and a few new faces.

My brother-in-law, Joe Nanney, who is also part of the 100 Miles of Dialogue journey, explained how to break that pattern:
“If you’ve had a great experience with a group of people, don’t leave without planning the next one.”

Relationships need care even after the photos are shared and the bags are unpacked. Sending a calendar invite can help keep a group connected.

Our group made a real plan to see each other again and figured out how we would meet.

Joe’s advice helped us keep the spirit of the trip alive. Planning the next gathering will take some effort and a few calendar checks. Making these plans gives us another reason to share time together.

Most friendships don’t end because of arguments. They fade away simply because no one sets up the next time to talk.

Good intentions aren’t enough to keep relationships going. They grow stronger when we actually put time on the calendar.

Have you noticed how putting something on the calendar helps keep your most important connections alive?